3 Ways You’re Accidentally Scaring Them Away and How to Stop

When you meet someone you really like, the stakes are higher — and this means that whatever insecurities or fears are lying beneath the surface will come out.

Do not let this sabotage a real connection.

3 Insecure Behaviors That Scare Him Off:

1️⃣ Constantly wondering what they are doing.

EX: Checking their social media to see the last time they were active if you haven’t received a text back from them.

The problem with this behavior is that you’re focusing on the wrong things. Instead of focusing on the average of their communication and behavior towards you, you are wanting any attention you can get from them.

Even if you don’t think this is obvious, it will come out as subtle passive aggressive energy or come off as too clingy.

2️⃣ Comparing yourself to other people.

EX: When you start seeing someone, you start worrying about other women they are around - are they more attractive than me, is he giving her more attention than me.

In this way, you under value yourself. What wins someone’s heart is your certainly that you are bringing your unique voice and essence to the table and allowing someone to fall in love with that.

3️⃣ Trying to control his behaviors.

EX: Maybe he is doing a guy’s night out and there’s a part of you deep down that is uncomfortable with that and you’re worrying he may be flirting with other women or might meet someone else.

If someone can’t have their freedom within relationship in way that respects our boundaries, there is a real problem there. If the only way you can trust him is by keeping him away from “temptation” than you’re only masking the problem, not solving it.

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