Which Dater are You?

From my work with women, I’ve come to see these two major themes very clearly — and I’m curious which one you resonate with more?

The Hyper-Independent Woman:

  • Distracts herself with work, friends, family and pets

  • Avoids dating altogether

  • Convinces herself that relationships are too much trouble, she’s better off without a man

  • Thinks she’s setting “boundaries” but they are actually “walls” she’s built up trying to protect herself

  • Has a “I can do it all myself” mindset

  • Doesn’t trust a man to take the lead

  • Attracts passive men because she is very much in her masculine energy

The Cool Girl:

  • Go with the flow, laid back, doesn't make a fuss, low maintenance

  • Settles for whatever she can get, eats up the breadcrumbs

  • Doesn’t express emotions or vulnerability in fear of being too much

  • “If I’m not too much, a man is more likely to want me,”

  • Convinces herself that she doesn’t care that much so when a man hurts her, “It’s no big deal, I didn’t even care anyways.”

  • Attracts men who are noncommittal and inconsistent

Although these two daters seem very different, they are more similar than you may think.

Both are run by subconscious patterns & they will both fail at finding healthy love doing what they’ve been doing.

Overcoming your patterns is the quickest, most effective way to attract an emotionally available, committed partner.

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