What to do when you feel him pulling away
Does this sound familiar? ↴
💟 It’s going really well the first few weeks…
😍 You let yourself get excited about someone again
📱The texts & calls are consistent
🧐 And then, something shifts.
🚩 He seems more distant.
😕 He’s not taking the initiative to make plans.
I hear from a lot of women in this situation and their question to me is:
“How do I get him to be interested again?”
My response…
“Why do you want to be with someone you have to chase or convince to be interested in you?”
I’ll save you the coaching session and just give it to you straight —
The chase is the most exciting (& addictive) part for many of us.
So, what to do if he is losing interest…
Let him.
Healthy love isn’t about changing who you are so that someone stays interested in you.
It takes courage to walk away — especially when you’ve already built a connection.
It takes discernment to know WHEN to walk away — especially if he is REALLY close to what you do want.
It takes self-worth to say “I deserve more”.
It takes trust to let go before you know what you’re making space for.
But believe me, settling for scraps because it’s better than being alone is NOT the way.
If you’re ready to STOP attracting men who ghost, aren’t ready for commitment, or just don’t excite you…