Why you *don’t* need a spiritual partner

The greatest way you can inspire him to grow is by staying in your lane and relentlessly embodying your own growth in a CLEAN way.

Clean meaning resentment free.

If there is resentment in your heart, it feels like you’re looking down on him.

You do this in subtle ways…

👉🏼 thinking you know what’s best for you

👉🏼 what book he should read

👉🏼 how he should be leading you

Who entitled you to know what’s best for him?

This is very much mothering energy, which he is going to resist and resent.

And you’ll end up resenting because he isn’t “obeying” you and you’re frustrated because you’re in the motherly energy instead of being his lover.

Take the focus off “he needs to…” and begin to see him for the man he is right now.

Instead of looking down on him for not being on the same growth path as you, accept and embody your role as the oracle.

Your growth is yours. Your practices are yours. They are a gift to the relationship.

Express to your partner that they are important to you and why.

See the ways he DOES connect to himself, the things he does that he is passionate about, when he talks about it he lights up, passions that connect him to him.

Because when you do, this is what is possible ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️